Around 2010 in Germany we discovered Stellating!
Ho, man! This is something utterly remarkable.
The term 'Stellating' means 'to change a planet into a star'.
The difference between a planet and a star is that a planet absorbs more energy than it gives off, whereas a star radiates more energy than it absorbs.
Human beings are designed to be 'stars', but we are conditioned to be 'planets'.
Think of the abundant and coercive ways you are invited to be a 'planet' with 'soldier-like' qualities:
- Orbit around external authority.
- Be predictable.
- Remain calm, cool, and collected.
- Be loyal.
- Wait around, like a Victim.
- ...it's all about me.
Now think of the extraordinary potentials packed inside your Being that you long to radiate as a 'star' (not a 'movie star' or 'rock star', but a star that is a source of life energy for serving your people):
- Be abundant.
- Be generous.
- Be humble and invisible.
- Be courageous.
- Go first.
- ...it's all about creating.
The transformation from being a 'planet' to being a 'star' is entire.
Your purpose changes, paradigm changes, strategy changes, vision of what is possible changes. The procedure is fully engaging. The star comes into existence as the planet starts on fire from the inside out. It can be intense... intensely Fun. Stellating is authentic adventure.
Nobody can Stellate for you. Nobody can stop you from Stellating.
In Possibility Management we deliver Stellating in the particularly-safe-and-clear spaces of Possibility Labs. There you have a trained spaceholder - a Trainer - who has already Stellated her four feelings archetypes and brought to life the Pirate Sorceress Warrioress Queen Goddess Woman in herself (Pirate Magician King Spiritual Warrior Man). This is what is holding and navigating space for your authentic adulthood initiatory process of Stellating. It is fantastic to be in that space.
The transformation in Stellating Anger, for example, occurs in the moment you consciously experience and express 100% maximum Archetypal Anger in a held space with a trained witness (Trainer) for no reason for as long as you want. In that moment, when you are 'out of your mind', your entire nervous system changes its Point Of Origin. It re-anchors from the mediocre world to the extraordinary world.
The archetypal territory of Anger is inside of you. It always has been. It always will be.
You go into the territory of Anger and the anger for no reason. Then you stop the anger for no reason. It is as loud and dangerous as being personally attacked and torn apart by Godzilla. If it is not loud and painful, you are not doing it... you are only thinking about doing it. No cigar.
Anger (as well as sadness, fear, and joy) does not get bigger than 100% big. How could it?
When you dive 100% into the archetypal territory of Anger inside of you and the Archetypal Force of Anger rips through your nerves, heart, lungs, the veins in your neck and the roar from your throat, the Archetypal Switch flips to ON, for the rest of your life. From that moment on, you contain the Anger. It does not contain you. You own your Anger. Is does not own you. You are bigger than Archetypal Anger. It is not bigger than you.
Even at 100% intense Archetypal Anger you are okay. You can go into that territory any time you want, in an instant. And stop, when you want, in an instant. This is a Feeling, not an Emotion.
After Stellating Anger, go for Stellating Fear, so you can own your fear and your fear no longer owns you. You can dive completely into 100% Archetypal Fear and be totally okay. Same with Sadness, and Joy.
Perhaps one day - if it is your calling - you can return the favor by holding and navigating Stellating for others.
Think of the 7 billion uninitiated humans on planet Earth. There are plenty of Clients waiting for you to show up and do your job for them. You do not have to spend the days of your life working for a corporation to live on planet Earth. You could actually use the days of your life doing what you came here to do.
It can help to know that what you expected to find here when you were born, is what you came here to build.
It could also help you to know that Stellating your 4 Feelings gives you needed resources to do what you came here to do, no matter how big it is. Stellating unleashes you as a an Archetypal Force of Nature. Why not do this? It is your human birth right.