Since 1975, small teams of researchers across Europe and the Americas have been exploring how feelings provide value for a human life. Since 1998 these authentic adulthood initiatory processes have been made available in Expand The Box trainings and Possibility Labs. More recently emotional healing and initiatory processes are delivered in Possibility Coaching, Possibility Team, Feelings Practitioner sessions, Possibility Mediation, and Possibility Psychology.

Modern culture teaches that feelings are a design error, that anger, sadness, and fear are 'negative', 'bad', 'wrong', 'childish', and have no place in human life. Furthermore, feelings should be avoided, suppressed, withheld, and controlled... with psychopharmaceuticals if necessary. Modern culture regards joy as the only 'good' feeling, but only in moderation.

Through delivering thousands of healing and adulthood initiatory processes especially during the past two decades we have discovered that the emotional teachings from modern culture are not true. In fact, modern culture's teachings are SO not true that they may cause serious diseases such as Parkinson's, Depression, Inflammatory diseases, and even cancer. One may begin to wonder why modern culture would would make the suppression of feelings and the banishment of authentic initiations some of its central characteristics.

Possibility Management Edgeworkers soon reached the limits of modern culture's thoughtware and began new Experiments.

Around 1991 we discovered Valerie Lankford's profound Thoughtmap of 4 Feelings. Valerie's map shows how the complete feelings spectrum is created out of mixtures of anger, sadness, fear, and joy, just like Leonardo da Vinci painted his Mona Lisa by mixing primary colors.

Your relationship to your feelings changes entirely depending upon if you stick to the Old Thoughtmap of Feelings (where it is not okay to feel), or you shift to the New Thoughtmap of Feelings (where feelings are neutral energy and information resources empowering you in a creative, ecstatic, and relationally-intimate adult life).

Upgrading your feelings thoughtware is as astonishing as shifting from the flat-world map of the Earth to the round-world map of the Earth. The world itself has not changed, but everything works differently.

Identifying the sensations, body postures, facial expressions, and sounds of each of the four primary Feelings makes the Emotional Body and the domain of Feelings understandable and tame enough even for the men to navigate!

It is so liberating to memorize and use the sentence, "I feel mad, sad, glad, or scared because _____________."

Your clear, responsible communication helps you feel heard, and it helps the other person feel safe enough to be with you whatever you are feeling. So many incomplete and broken communications can be suddenly healed.

Around 2007 our Possibilitators discovered an additional breathtaking distinction: there is a world of difference between Feelings and Emotions!

• FEELINGS: Feelings come into your awareness (anger, sadness, fear, joy) on the New Thoughtmap of Feelings to start things, Stop things, change things, Hold Space, listen, connect, accept, grieve, pay attention, stay alert, celebrate, empower others, be proactive, organize teams, build gameworlds. You have Feelings in the ADULT EGO STATE, where you have a small NOW, a small HERE, and a small YOU (meaning when you have almost no voices in your head, a state that is the Doorway to the ARCHETYPAL EGO STATE. The Archetypal Ego State is required to create the kind of energetic 5 Body Intimacy chambers needed to explore the Archetypal Domains and make 5 Body Intimacy Journeys. You use your Feelings and then they vanish from your experience in less than 3 minutes.
• EMOTIONS: Emotions feel the same as Feelings at first (anger, sadness, fear, joy, or mixed (HINT: If you experience mixes such as aggression, depression, guilt, shame, disgust, resentment, jealousy, sentimentality, hysteria, schadenfreude,  you can be sure these are Emotions and not Feelings) but when you try to use them, nothing actually changes. This is because Emotions do not come from the present moment and do not have anything to do with the person in front of you or your current circumstances. You try to use your Emotions, but nothing actually changes, and they last longer than 3 minutes in your experience. Did you ever feel angry, sad, glad, scared, or a mixed emotion for an hour? A day? A week? These are not Feelings. They are Emotions.

In short: Feelings are for handling things. Emotions are for healing things.

In the new world established by the New Thoughtmap of Feelings you have new Possibilities.

For example, you can calibrate your Feelings Detector - located as a dial in the center of your chest - so that you can accurately detect which feeling you are feeling, what percentage big it is up to 100% maximum archetypal intensity, what it is about, and if it is a Feeling or an Emotion.

When you know what you are feeling and you make contact with someone else, you know what they are feeling. This is the beginning of Emotional Body intimacy.

You notice that all day and all night you are actually feeling angry, sad, glad, and scared about every single object, word, sound, image, movement, plant, animal, thought, and feeling. With your new distinctions you can navigate your Emotional Body experiences like a surfer navigates waves.

As you lower your Numbness Bar and perceive the Low Level Feelings and Emotions (from 1% to 10% intense), you discover that you can make decisions, plans, boundaries, and offers using the wisdom and energy without having to emotionally explode, run away, shut down, or freak out.

The information and energy of your 4 Feelings becomes a powerful creative resource for you to use in your daily life both personally and professionally.

And still something more is possible. We did not see this coming...

Around 2010 in Germany we discovered Stellating!

Ho, man! This is something utterly remarkable.

The term 'Stellating' means 'to change a planet into a star'.

The difference between a planet and a star is that a planet absorbs more energy than it gives off, whereas a star radiates more energy than it absorbs.

Human beings are designed to be 'stars', but we are conditioned to be 'planets'.

Think of the abundant and coercive ways you are invited to be a 'planet' with 'soldier-like' qualities:

• Consume.
• Copy.
• Obey.
• Follow.
• Conform.
• Orbit around external authority.
• Be predictable.
• Remain calm, cool, and collected.
• Be loyal.
• Wait around, like a Victim.
• ...it's all about me.

Now think of the extraordinary potentials packed inside your Being that you long to radiate as a 'star' (not a 'movie star' or 'rock star', but a star that is a source of life energy for serving your people):

• Shine.
• Generate.
• Explore.
• Empower.
• Inspire.
• Give.
• Provide.
• Be abundant.
• Celebrate.
• Transform.
• Be generous.
• Share.
• Attract.
• Be humble and invisible.
• Be courageous.
• Go first.
• ...it's all about creating.

The transformation from being a 'planet' to being a 'star' is entire.

Your purpose changes, paradigm changes, strategy changes, vision of what is possible changes. The procedure is fully engaging. The star comes into existence as the planet starts on fire from the inside out. It can be intense... intensely Fun. Stellating is authentic adventure.

Nobody can Stellate for you. Nobody can stop you from Stellating.

In Possibility Management we deliver Stellating in the particularly-safe-and-clear spaces of Possibility Labs. There you have a trained spaceholder - a Trainer - who has already Stellated her four feelings archetypes and brought to life the Pirate Sorceress Warrioress Queen Goddess Woman in herself (Pirate Magician King Spiritual Warrior Man). This is what is holding and navigating space for your authentic adulthood initiatory process of Stellating. It is fantastic to be in that space.

The transformation in Stellating Anger, for example, occurs in the moment you consciously experience and express 100% maximum Archetypal Anger in a held space with a trained witness (Trainer) for no reason for as long as you want. In that moment, when you are 'out of your mind', your entire nervous system changes its Point Of Origin. It re-anchors from the mediocre world to the extraordinary world.

The archetypal territory of Anger is inside of you. It always has been. It always will be.

You go into the territory of Anger and the anger for no reason. Then you stop the anger for no reason. It is as loud and dangerous as being personally attacked and torn apart by Godzilla. If it is not loud and painful, you are not doing it... you are only thinking about doing it. No cigar.

Anger (as well as sadness, fear, and joy) does not get bigger than 100% big. How could it?

When you dive 100% into the archetypal territory of Anger inside of you and the Archetypal Force of Anger rips through your nerves, heart, lungs, the veins in your neck and the roar from your throat, the Archetypal Switch flips to ON, for the rest of your life. From that moment on, you contain the Anger. It does not contain you. You own your Anger. Is does not own you. You are bigger than Archetypal Anger. It is not bigger than you.

Even at 100% intense Archetypal Anger you are okay. You can go into that territory any time you want, in an instant. And stop, when you want, in an instant. This is a Feeling, not an Emotion.

After Stellating Anger, go for Stellating Fear, so you can own your fear and your fear no longer owns you. You can dive completely into 100% Archetypal Fear and be totally okay. Same with Sadness, and Joy.

Perhaps one day - if it is your calling - you can return the favor by holding and navigating Stellating for others.

Think of the 7 billion uninitiated humans on planet Earth. There are plenty of Clients waiting for you to show up and do your job for them. You do not have to spend the days of your life working for a corporation to live on planet Earth. You could actually use the days of your life doing what you came here to do.

It can help to know that what you expected to find here when you were born, is what you came here to build.

It could also help you to know that Stellating your 4 Feelings gives you needed resources to do what you came here to do, no matter how big it is. Stellating unleashes you as a an Archetypal Force of Nature. Why not do this? It is your human birth right.

NOTE: The use of the word 'Archetype' in Possibility Management has no connection to the Jungian / Freudian Psychoanalytical Context. We use the word 'Archetype' as it comes from the context of Possibility and Radical Responsibility. The two uses are not related.

Learning about Stellating is not Stellating. What you can understand is third prize, more of a curiosity, a remarkable thing. Do not think that understanding a thing is the thing.

Each Stellating process initiates an Archetypal structure that has been dormant in you since birth, a 'Feelings Archetype'. Until they are Stellated, your 4 Feelings Archetypes are still wrapped in plastic. The batteries are not installed. The Archetypes are not turned on yet. Each successful Stellating initiation brings one more of your 4 Feelings Archetypes online in your daily life, for the rest of your life.

Stellating Anger ignites the Warrioress / Warrior Feelings Archetype in you.

Stellating Sadness ignites the Lover / Communicator Feelings Archetype in you.

Stellating Fear ignites the Sorceress / Wizard Feelings Archetype in you.

Stellating Joy ignites the Possibilitator / Good Queen / Good King Feelings Archetype in you.

Trying to describe to you the experience of Being, for example, a stellated Warrioress / Warrior, would, at this point, be counterproductive. Whatever image you received from my description could easily be held onto by your Box / Gremlin as a barrier against finding your own experience. Then you would compare and judge your own experience. You would analyze with your mind to try to force your own experience to match the picture you have of how it should be. The experience of Warrioress / Warrior DOES NOT OCCUR IN YOUR MIND.

I leave it like this. The Doorway is open. You are standing there... somewhere... far away from the Doorway? Within one arm's reach of the Doorway? What are you going to do about it?

We will see...

Direct the energy and intelligence of your Stellated Feelings Archetypes and Conscious Feelings to:

• Bring the vision in your Pearl to life.
• Make your Website.
• Write your Articles.
• Build your Circle.
• Build your Gameworld.
• Deliver a weekly online or offline Study Group.
• Deliver a weekly online or offline Possibility Team.
• Create and Inhabit the Culture you would love to live in.
• Deliver the services of your Archetypal Lineage to your Village.
• Build your Nanonation.